We are something to many people. But there is literally not enough of you to be everything to everyone. Know this. Allow this knowing to go deep into your heart. Then, live by faith that everyone will find happiness in their own time. Believe that this will be the right time for them. Have faith, that through the guidance of your soul, you will help the right people at the right times. Let this be enough.
No matter who you are, where you go or what you do with your life, you will undoubtedly encounter some humans who are not at all “nice” to you. There will be people along your journey who appear to be filled to the brim with anger and hostility. No matter what the people around them do, they always seem discontent. Sometimes, they are mean to people for no apparent reason at all. And this hurts people.
Why do we think finding someone to blame, any time we feel discontent, will make things better? For some reason, we are prone to believe that if we can find someone to blame for a situation, we will feel better about it. This could not be further from the truth, which is why I have always been so fascinated by this concept. Blaming others is making a conscious decision to give our own power away. Whether someone else’s behavior led to our current situation or not, focusing on blaming them will not help us or make us feel better. If anything, using our energy to blame only diminishes our effectiveness.
It greatly saddens me to see a world full of people who are so blind to the power of the whole. Everything that everyone is searching for would be so much more attainable if we all understood this one thing.
One person, one entity, one political party, one systemic issue, or one agenda, alone, is not to blame for the hate, division, violence, and chaos that permeates our country. Our reality has been created by an inconceivable number of little choices, made every day by people just like you and me. The big things are made up of all the tiny pieces and the tiny pieces belong to us.
There is never one all-powerful truth for all of us. There are trillions upon trillions of powerful truths floating around, that are changing all the time. And, they don’t always match the other truths. There is nothing wrong with any of them. They are not good or bad. They are all just doing their part to serve the highest good of whoever they are divinely inspiring, at this moment.
Just because something was a huge blessing yesterday doesn’t mean it’s not a curse today. Just because something was right for us last year doesn’t mean it’s right for us this year. And most importantly, just because we find something isn’t good for us today doesn’t mean it wasn’t good for us yesterday.
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We see people all around us who are stuck in negative life cycles. They are in toxic relationships, unstable, bankrupt, homeless, addicted; the list goes on. I have been this person before and I have changed my entire life drastically. I have moved from hate to happiness, from despair to hope and from self-pity to self-empowerment.
Darkness is light
Lightness is dark
The blackest of ash
Begins with a spark